Someone recently asked me what makes a man sexy? This was from a friend via the email. It got me to thinking...and I realized this would make a great blog topic.
When I think sexy man I guess the first thing that pops in my head is all the sexy Hollywood icons. There are so many male sex symbols, some from years ago, and of course the present day cuties. Since I'm mature, most of the sexy males I'll mention in this blog are mature too. Sorry, I'm not a cougar, and not attracted to fresh faced boy toys.:)
Mel Gibson used to be at the top of the list for me. It is sad that hard living and alcohol battered his face so much. Road Warrior anyone?
I've watched Kurt Russell since he was a young boy playing in Disney movies (man did I just date myself!). He was a beautiful boy and then young man, and wow did he grow up handsome like all adoring girls would hope. I love him with long hair and a beard (ah, Snake in Escape from NY or the pilot in The Thing), and he's just as pretty smooth shaven with short hair. Sigh, can you tell I have a thing for Kurt?
Sean Connery is another handsome devil who has aged well. I have heard many women when discussing the topic of sexy men, state that "Sean Connery can eat crackers in my bed anytime." He also looks great with a beard.
Once at the airport, I stood behind an older man who looked a bit like Mr. Connery. All the women's eyes kept flicking his direction. You know that feminine thing we do where we try not to look like we're staring. I had the best view and believe me I had my fill of this handsome man.
I guess I can't move on to my next lists without talking about Will Smith. Yeah, he's one of those younguns, but oh so cute. I think it is his cheeky humor that comes out in many of his movies that gets me. That smart alecky swagger that makes you want to pinch his cheeks!
Latin lovers. Gotta love em, right. Yes, for me at least. I love those dark looks. Lisa Kessler's Night Walker is highlighted in my website (for authors & readers) eMagazine - BTS eMag. We asked Lisa to tell us about her hero and give us a photo of what he looked like. Yum, there's a lovely photo of Antonio Banderas. Those dark looks coupled with a sexy accent. Devine! See this interesting coverage of Lisa's book at: www.booktrailershowcase.com. Click on eMag at the top.
There are many memorable mentions for most sexy; Robert Redford, Carey Grant, James Dean, Yul Brynner, Clark Gable, Paul Newman, Harrison Ford, Patrick Swayze, Bruce Willis, Denzel Washington, George Clooney, Brad Pitt, and Johnny Depp to name a few. I know, some people , may not find Bruce Willis especially handsome, not in the classic sense at least. But his sense of humor makes him very attractive to this fan. "Yippie ki yay MF." I love that line.
My two favorite sexy men are Kurt Russell, which you can tell from my above homage. And the other is Clint Eastwood in his hey day. Give me one of those tough, mysterious cowboys please. Clint's spaghetti movies are drool worthy just to watch him. Since I love adventures and action movies too, I actually really like these movies. Two Mules for Sister Sara is my fav.
But what makes these men sexy? Physical attributes certainly tops the list, whether it be rugged, suave or boyish good looks. Each woman has a type that titillates her senses.
Every one of these icons have qualities that set our pulses racing, provides us with fodder for fantasies, and authors with sexy and interesting characters. Beside their handsome looks, we inately look for more substance like charm, a sense of humor, intelligence, fighting skills, a knowledge about women, treating women like women, and exuding confidence. Some have sweet personas while others exterior's are tough and barely penetrable. But don't we women love a challenge?!
As I was getting ready to wrap this up, I realized there is one element to certain males that can push them into drool worthy even if they aren't much in the looks dept. Music ability. I was remembering a boyfriend, who happened to be very cute, playing the guitar and singing to me. Sigh. Now that was something that could melt you panties off.
There are so many qualities that can make a man attractive, this blog could get really loooong. But I'd like to stop here and ask for comments. Tell me what makes a man sexy to you?
Myra Nour
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